For years I have facilitated numerous death cafes around the greater Seattle area as well as virtually. Despite the fact that we all know the inevitability of what awaits us - our death and the death of everyone and everything we cherish - acknowledging this reality, let alone discussing or planning for what is to come, is challenging for many. By avoiding such conversations, we empower our fears, and possibly act in ways that increase suffering. As I am fond of quoting, You can talk about sex without getting pregnant, so, too, you can talk about death with out dying (at least, immediately). Death cafes offer participants the space to give voice to the myriad of thoughts and feelings surrounding their experience of death, and to provide an opportunity to  recognize they are not alone in their concerns by connecting with others.

Another topic that most Americans believe is inevitable, yet remain reluctant and fearful to talk about is climate change. According to the Yale Center for Climate Communications, over 70% of US citizens admit that climate change is happening and 60% are somewhat concerned, yet most (67%) say they rarely to never voice their concerns about the climate crisis to anyone. Similar to the death cafes, the goal of these conversations is come up with solutions to alter the potential outcomes, but rather to learn how to befriend our feelings, witness and honor our sadness, fear, anger and rage, to connect with others, and in the midst of all the loss and death, continue to live and breathe in the world.

This is a free, online, participant-directed conversation rather than an educational workshop. Participants are invited to show up with an open heart and open ears, willing to be present to themselves and others, to listen respectfully, engage mindfully, and honor what arises in themselves and the group.